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Saturday, November 23, 2019

Evening in Paradise

Evening in Paradise: More StoriesEvening in Paradise: More Stories by Lucia Berlin
My rating: 1 of 5 stars

Okay, I know alcoholism is a disease BUT it is not an excuse for poor choices, self-indulgence and lack of responsibility. Nor, in my estimation, does it make meandering autobiographical stories written while drunk, stoned or both literature. One of the blurbs says the subject matter is " harrowing for women". Well, only if you've made the choices this woman makes.
Sure there are several stories that I liked but by and large I was impatient with the mindless literal bed-hopping ( sometimes with minors other times with friends of a husband who then become new husbands) and geographical meanderings of an irresponsible mother of four boys. Irresponsible in conceiving them and irresponsible in "rearing" them. Nice to know that by the time they had grown up she got sober and through some strange happenstance became a college professor of creative writing. Guess someone thought her writings were good, though they didn't get published until after she died.
Received a copy of this book from BookBrowse to discuss starting Dec 2.

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We Met in December--But I'm Not Saying What Year!

We Met in DecemberWe Met in December by Rosie Curtis
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

An easy read about a group of single young people sharing a house in London. Just warmth and friendships, the years of starting out in life, finally being grown-up and kind of amazed at it all. Learning the ropes of living in a big city for some, starting a new career after deciding the path chosen at first is not a good fit, navigating the ins and outs of relationships and what one really wants in a partner. For some this read will fit into their lives they are living now with recognition of the situations. For other readers, like me, a trip back in time with memories and chuckles at how it was to be starting out. Also, like me, a reminder of what is happening in my own kids' lives and what, as their mother, I mean to them even though they are on their own. All in all a nice book to cuddle up with on a rainy day with tea and bisquits. Book provided by Goodreads for review

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Wednesday, November 6, 2019

Bernadette is Severely Depressed and Needs Help--Not Funny!

Where'd You Go, BernadetteWhere'd You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

" Funiesunnyt Novel..." "Divinely Funny".. ..." family dramedy".. " you'll laugh your pants off".. Just a few of the blurbs on the back and front of this book. I never even chuckled. A woman is so depressed she lives in a house with holes in the floor, roots growing into the rooms, some of which are shut off they are so decrepit, the stench is unbelieveabe. Her child, who was born with a congenitive heart defect has been ridiculed and mocked by her peers since she has been able to venture into the world after years of surgery. He husband is so busy working for Microsoft that he ignores his surroundings and hardly notices what is going on in his home. Eventually, he starts to notice what appear to be problems with his reclusive and negative wife and decides the best thing he can do for her is commit her to an asylum for psychotherapy and take their teenage daughter on the trip to Antarctica they've promised her will be a family trip so that Bernadette has time to heal. Hilarious.
What this is is a study of a modern day family who reside in the upper classes of our society. The wives stay home and compete with each other to host the most parties, get their kids into the " best schools" and gossip about anyone who makes a choice to avoid their company. The men, those that are even mentioned in the book, basically go to work as high paid executives who drink and hang out at the golf course or country club and pay very little attention to the operating of their homes--they provide the money, isn't that enough? And the kids, well, depends --some like Bee are amazingly level-headed with interests and activities that don't rely on the parents very much or like Kyle, steal their mothers' drugs and use them and what they can get elsewhere to create entertainment of a different sort. Hilarious!
But, all that aside, Bee is interesting and this is her book. She very much loves her parents and they do her, as well. The fact they are off the rails is at first not clear to her and she blithely asks for a trip to Antarctica since she has been studying it and is curious. Both parents are supportive of her and so they agree to the trip. What ensues is a journey of discovery and eventually of healing for this family. That part of the book, while not at all funny, is at least what might keep a reader going, despite the sadness. The hope that things will turn around and finally Bee will have a somewhat normal family in this sea of entitlement and ennui.

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Tuesday, November 5, 2019

Poorly Researched Novel of Grace Kelly Falls Flat

The Girl in White GlovesThe Girl in White Gloves by Kerri Maher
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Wanted to like this book but there was no depth to the plot or the characters. Every aspect, including the totally fictional voice of Grace Kelly was superficial. It was like reading the old tabloid exposes of her comings and goings with none of the breathless, lively writing of the gossips. Sad to think this book will probably sell because of its purported basis on Kelly's life. Its an average novel about a skeleton of a main character that would probably not grab much attention without that connection. Perhaps her affairs should have been more exploited in these days of Shades of Gray. Might have made it more interesting. Readers would be better served to read one of the biographies that are out there.

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Sunday, November 3, 2019

I Remember Ike

At Ease: Stories I Tell to FriendsAt Ease: Stories I Tell to Friends by Dwight D. Eisenhower
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I remember Ike but that seems strange to say in a way, because for so many people to whom I speak, he is an historical figure, someone distant and dusty, of another time. And so he is, yet I remember posters above the seats of the bus on which I traveled to school in NYC that were full head shots of the man running for President. That is my first real recollection of him as a person. Being a kid, I really didn't pay very much attention to him as President but I remember he had a cute grand-son about my age. And then, on our visits to Gettysburg, I'd always look over from Cemetery Ridge to see if the flag was flying over that house beyond the white picket fence. If it was then he and maybe Mamie and the grandkids were in residence. I remember, too, my Dad speaking of Ike during WW II, as well as other Generals who played roles in that conflict and how he felt about them. He liked Ike, thought Montgomery was an ass, wasn't too fond of Marshall. All of it went over my head. I didn't like history and it bored me to hear these things. How I wish I'd listened more closely.

Last year, on our cross country trip, my husband and I stopped in Abilene, Kansas at Eisenhower's boyhood home, Presidential library, museum and burial site. As we left I stopped in the gift shop, as I always do, to purchase a book or two about the subject and this was one I chose. The picture on the front was the Eisenhower of my memory--the old man, past all the years of military service and the uniforms and the jacket bearing his name. The title AT EASE was perfect and the Stories I Tell to Friends, an invitation to an inside look at who this man was.

The book did not disappoint. I had already read the biography chosen on the same trip but reading these scattered memories written by the man himself were so much more lively. It is easy to read and one can almost hear his voice speaking the words. Having walked through his home the early days in Abilene were particularly appealing. I, too, went to college on the Hudson and, in the days before 9/11, had been to the Point several times and knew several cadets so the scenes of his education were also vivid.

The life of a career military man was less familiar to me but as he described his career from young Point graduate through various stints as staff officer to many other famous names, in particular, MacArthur, the evolution of the man and his experiences was fascinating. Last year I'd been to General Pershing's home and bought his biography. Now, in the twilight of his career, young Eisenhower encounters him and describes the old Cavalry officer from a totally different slant.

Obviously, much of the book takes place before World War II even though to the rest of the world it is his position as Commander of the ETO--European Theatre of Operations--and later as Supreme Commander of Allied Forces in Europe that he is best remembered. These positions came when he was 52 years old and had spent 30 + years in the Army without actually getting very many promotions and having never served in combat. As a result there is much to tell about those early years and they are as interesting, because of the lack of notoriety if nothing else, as the years of action and danger of a World War. Stories about the young George Patton and Mark Clark among others is more revealing about the men they were than the heroes and icons they became.

Once the War ended, Eisenhower continued for awhile in the military--serving as Army Chief of Staff in the new Pentagon building. My Dad was an electrician on that construction job and his descriptions of the building and its many corridors and security features made Ike's recounting of his getting lost all that more amusing.

He finishes his stories with his stint as president of Columbia University and his new hobby of oil painting. I found this section a bit anticlimactic although interesting. Finally, he relates his efforts in getting NATO off the ground. Until I read this section I'm not sure I realized when studying about the organization in 1959 I realized how recently the pact had been formed.

Disappointingly, although written in 1967, two years before his death and six years after leaving the Presidency, he tells no stories about that period of his life. From the '40's onward members of both parties had tried to convince him to run for President ( as many were also encouraging MacArthur ) but he steadfastly refused to even consider such a thing. He implies that through his efforts in getting NATO established that he realized there was a real need for change in government and that the people seemed to be wanting that change. He, therefore, entertained the possibility of running on the Republican ticket and that is where he ends his stories--though there certainly was more he could have told.

All in all, if you are my vintage, I think you'd enjoy hearing your childhood memories in more detail. If you are a younger student of history this is a good place to start this period--it is far from a complete telling but it is fascinating reading and begs the reader to go to other sources to fill in the blanks.

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